To get the best response from your Lady you need to treat her with respect. The more gentlemanly you are...the easier it is for her to create a sensual and memorable encounter...pop a mint in your mouth...her being an uninhibited partcipant in erotic games is directly proportional to your level of personal hygiene...she is unlikely to let you kiss her if your breath smells bad and she will not enjoy being fondled if you have dirty hands.